We study various aspects of
tame finite parabolic iterated function systems that satisfy a certain open
set condition. The first goal in our analysis of these systems is a detailed
investigation of the conformal measure on the associated limit sets. We derive
a formula that describes in a uniform way the scaling of this measure at
arbitrary limit points. The second goal is to provide a metrical Diophantine
analysis for these parabolic limit sets in the spirit of theorems of Jarník and
Khintchine in number theory. Subsequently, we show that this Diophantine
analysis gives rise to refinements of the description of the conformal measure
in terms of Hausdorff and packing measures with respect to certain gauge
functions.